I hear all the time guys saying "I don't see enough pictures of bottom surgery results" some guys even say that they don't see enough top surgery results from guys of color!
Now why is that you might ask? BECAUSE PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET CAN BE RUDE AS HELL!
Now don't get me wrong now EVERYONE is an ass when it comes to respecting people's bodies but some people are!
I know plenty of guys talking about how they "HATE scars" and "top surgery with DI is ugly" and "bottom surgery doesn't look real"(I'll come back to this topic later). Well then DON'T have surgery! Just don't hate on the guys who have and disrespect them. I RARELY share pictures because I am just a private person and though Top surgery did alleviate my dysphoria drastically I am still protective and sensitive about my body at times. I decided to share top surgery photos to show off my tattoo and show another guy of color who had top surgery. Fools.. YES I SAID IT! FOOLS! had the nerve to talk smack about my chest! Well screw you! Don't LOOK! Also I WANTED TO SAY "At least I had surgery and I'm not dragging around quadruple D titties!" As always Mr. Nice guy pops up in me and I don't say that because that would be mean.
Why would I want to share my pictures with people who are gonna be rude?! That is why now I share when I feel like it. Sometimes I share sometimes I don't!
I am planning on having bottom surgery and in terms of surgery results for bottom surgery on guys of color that is like a needle in a hay stack! You can see a few metas sprinkled across the internet but NOT ONE PHALLO! I have spoken to guys of color and Asked them why they don't share their photos. (I knew the answer but still asked)
Guys said "If people can't respect someone's chest which is already senstive to many people WHY would I let them see my penis and say all sorts of disrespectful stuff after I spent thousands of dollars having surgery to feel whole?!"
Point made!
It makes me feel like only showing my dick in safe spaces at conferences that way if someone talks crap I can just DICK SMACK them. lol.
So the next time you are aching to see surgery results blame the loud mouth in the forum with you that doesn't know how to shut the hell up for them not being there!
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Speak the truth, man.
ReplyDeletetisk tisk...well i say fuck the rude ones especially because the life we live there will forever and 500 years be some dumb fuck with some dumb shit to say that dont even know they anus form a hole in the wall. But you know what at the end of the day who's happy? My black ass with my man-wango dangling, 6 pack abs, and chest of fiyahhhhhh...and who's unhappy searching the internet for hours obsessed over chest and dick pics they are lmao.
ReplyDeleteWOMP WOMP WOMPPPPPP LMAO
Misery loves company and that bitch keeps plenty of it. My ship has sailed its either get the hell in where you fit in or mumble like you have caca in ya mouth.
Another reason you forgot was most POC men tend to go stealth but it's cool a brother like myself is tired of a few things and seeing what POC invisibility is doing within the transmale spectrum. Hell before you I thought I was one of like 5 POC transmen in the whole world. We don't have real services directed towards us, we don't have direction to go when it comes to finding dr's that are excellent with POC skin issues, we don't know avg. POC sizes cuz lets face it people its no myth its scientific fact 95% of POC are larger, we don't have health studies directed towards us seeing as though another known fact as a Black man you have different health issues that others will never have just because of our lineage. I mean hell I can go on alllllllll day about what else there is but unlike others who just womp womp all day i make it a fact to break the mold and boundaries and who ever want to ride with me do ya thing.
peace
Aaron- I hear that man!
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